HOW TO LIVE PROUDLY.

Introduction
I am not a psychologist or a writer. I'm a woman who finally figured out what she wanted to do with her life at the age of 44. This blog is based on my own learnings and experiences. I have always been as real as possible, at least I think so. However, now I found that being authentic makes me feel happier, more fulfilled, and better able to handle life's challenges. I'll talk about why authenticity is important and how you can make it happen in your life.
The power of being an authentic person
Being authentic is about being yourself and embracing your flaws. It's not about pretending to be someone else or trying to be perfect at everything, but rather doing what makes you happy and comfortable.
Being an authentic person means knowing who you are and being proud of it, even if that means making mistakes along the way and that's okay! It's important to learn from those mistakes so that next time around, we can do better at whatever it was we were learning about ourselves through trial-and-error.
Learn to embrace your flaws
There's a difference between accepting your flaws and trying to change them. You can try to change your flaws, but changing how you perceive and react to them will make you feel more aligned with who you truly are.
If you were in an environment that made you feel like there was always something wrong with the way you were living your life, then it might be hard for you now as an adult not only accepting those things within yourself but also embracing them and learning how not to let them define who are.
But remember: no matter what anyone else thinks of us or says about us or does unto us we are not enough because they say so! We all have our own unique set of gifts and talents to share with the world.
Read, meditate, and practice mindfulness
- Read books that help you understand yourself and your journey
- Meditate to calm your mind and body
- Practice mindfulness to stay present in the moment
Make friends with your fears
In order for you to live your truth, it's important that you understand what fear is and how it affects us. Fear is a normal part of life and can be helpful if used properly. It can motivate us to take action in the face of uncertainty and danger but when fear becomes overwhelming, it can paralyze us from doing anything at all.
Fear can also be overcome by facing it head-on. By taking small steps towards our goals until they become larger ones; by challenging ourselves every day; by learning from experience rather than avoiding failure at all costs (which means never trying something new).
You have to live your truth so that it doesn't live you.
You can't control other people, but you can control yourself. You have to be true to yourself and live your truth so that it doesn't live you. The past is the past and there's nothing we can do about it now; all we have is today, this moment, and what we choose to do with those 24 hours in front of us.
Align your values and behaviors with your desired message.
Living the message you want to put out into the world can be a challenging but rewarding process. Here are the steps I am taking to live my message. You can also watch my video on YouTube where I explain it in more detail. Click here to watch.
- Clarify your message: Take some time to reflect on the message you want to put out into the world.
* What are the values and beliefs that are important to you? How do you want to impact the world around you? Write down your message and keep it visible so you can remind yourself of it often.
- Lead by example: People are more likely to be influenced by what you do than what you say.
* Make sure your actions align with your message. For example, if you want to promote kindness and compassion, make sure you are treating others with kindness and compassion in your daily life.
- Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness can help you be more present and intentional in your actions.
* Take time each day to be mindful of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This can help you identify areas where you may be out of alignment with your message and make adjustments as needed.
- Be authentic: People can often sense when someone is being disingenuous or insincere.
* Make sure your message is authentic to who you are as a person. Don't try to be someone you're not in order to fit a certain image or message.
- Seek feedback: It can be helpful to get feedback from others about how well you are living your message.
* Ask trusted friends or family members to give you honest feedback about how your actions align with your message. Use this feedback to make adjustments as needed.
This is an ongoing process that requires self-reflection, self-awareness, and commitment. It may not always be easy, but by living your message, you can make a positive impact on the world around you.
Conclusion
I hope you've found this article helpful. I know it can be hard to live your truth, but it's worth the struggle. We are all in this together and I believe that if we all start living our truths then the world would be a better place.
Life Beyond Boundaries
